When asked what are the signs of arousal in a man, any girl will immediately answer that it is an erection. However, it is not possible to know that a guy wants to make love if you check whether his organ is ready "for work and defense".
Signs of arousal in men:
- Nonverbal signals.
- Courtship.
- Position of the man's body.
- Physical reactions.
Nonverbal signals
There are nonverbal body signals that can tell you just as well as words whether a man wants you. For example, if a guy is interested in you and wants to make love to you, he will begin to copy your actions on a subconscious level, this will manifest itself in the repetition of your movements and body positions. If a guy, on the contrary, starts playing "mirror" with you, this is a clear signal that he doesn't mind taking you into the bedroom.
During a conversation, an excited man will constantly reduce the distance between you, doing it absolutely automatically. In the process of communication, the distances between bodies will slowly but surely decrease. The next stage is direct contact: touch. This does not mean that a man will begin to give up, indulging in too much. The fresher your relationship, the less pronounced this phase will be. It can manifest itself in light contact with hands and feet. This is the body language that clearly says that a man wants you. Pay attention to such incidents which, as a rule, are not at all random.
Courtship
During communication, an excited man will not miss the opportunity to show attention to the object of his desire. If you are sitting at the table, he will fill your glass, he will serve you a snack and, in the case of a loving relationship, he will try to feed you with his own hands. The latter is a sure sign that the "customer is ready", take it lukewarm, it won't go anywhere.
An excited man will help you sit in a chair and stand up. He will give you some outerwear and help you put it on. He will do all this not just out of kindness. His masculine nature will tell him that this is another opportunity to establish contact, to touch the object of his desire.
Position of the man's body
When he sees a woman he is interested in, the guy automatically activates the "macho" mode, straightens his back, tightens his belly, thus demonstrating how harmonious he is and all the charm of his virile figure. If a guy is sitting down, he will automatically spread his legs, showing off his crotch. Spreading his legs is the gesture of a confident male who has noticed a worthy female.
If you are facing each other, pay attention to the direction in which the toes of his shoes are "facing". Facing you means he is interested in you.
Physical reactions
Physiologically the state of arousal manifests itself not only in the erect penis. A man's breathing rate, voice and gaze change, his pulse quickens, his blood pressure rises. If you see that he is adjusting his tie, which seems to suffocate him, perhaps it is not because he is hot, but because the man is literally burning with the desire to have sex with you. At the same time, follow the man's voice and his gaze. If he is emotional, he won't be able to hide it behind a "mask".
Pay attention to the man's breathing. If he is excited, he will not be able to breathe as evenly and calmly as in his normal state. His breathing will change.